Family Mediation
Mediation is the process by which separating couples seek to reach an agreement about matters relating to their children, finances and property. Couples discuss these issues in the presence of a trained, independent third party – the mediator.
Mediators do not make decisions. Their role is to help couples:
• co-operate
• resolve conflict
• reach joint decisions
• focus on the needs and feelings of the children
Mediation is not reconciliation or counselling.
The Benefits
Mediation is:
• is generally much quicker and less expensive than going to Court
• helps separating couples to communicate and co-operate to reach agreement
• is less stressful and upsetting than going to Court
• is confidential
How Does Mediation Work?
Couples are often referred to a mediator by their solicitor and will already have received legal advice. Couples can contact a mediator direct. If so, they will be encouraged to seek advice from a solicitor at various stages throughout the process.
A meeting between the couple and a mediator is arranged. If financial issues are being discussed the mediation process starts with the disclosure of all financial information.
The mediator’s role is to facilitate open and free discussion and to try to help the couple to reach a consensus.
Once a consensus has been reached the mediator will summarise the proposals and any financial disclosure. Summaries are passed to each party’s solicitor who will then advise their client and deal with the legal formalities.
If you would like more information on Family Mediation please email us at cparrish@parrishsolicitors.co.uk or call us on 01234 711701.


